Welcome back to this three-part series on choosing the right wedding photographer for your special day! If you missed Part 1, where we discussed photographic style, you can catch up here.

In this post, we’ll focus on a crucial but often overlooked factor: photographic approach - how a photographer works on your wedding day. The final post in this series will explore the all-important topic of cost, so be sure to check back for that!

What is a Photographer’s “Approach”?

When I talk about “photographic approach,” I’m referring to how your photographer interacts with you, your guests, and your wedding overall. Some photographers act as high-energy cheerleaders, hyping up the crowd, mingling with guests, and bringing a vibrant energy to the day.

Others take a quieter, more observational role, blending into the background and capturing moments as they unfold naturally. This unobtrusive approach allows for more candid and authentic storytelling.

Of course, many photographers fall somewhere between these two styles. They may step in and take control when needed, such as during formal group shots, but remain discreet during intimate or emotional moments.

How to Determine a Photographer’s Approach

The best way to understand a photographer’s approach is simple: ask them! Most photographers will be happy to share how they work and what you can expect on the day.

You can also gain insight by:

Viewing Full Wedding Galleries

Ask to see a full gallery from a recent wedding, ideally one with a similar vibe to your celebration. This will give you a clearer sense of how they document the day and interact with the event.

Having an Open Conversation

Share details about your wedding atmosphere - whether you’re planning a lively celebration or a more intimate gathering - and ask how they would approach it.

My Approach to Wedding Photography

My style is firmly rooted in documentary wedding photography. I take an unobtrusive, “fly-on-the-wall” approach, capturing candid moments that tell the story of your day. Many clients have even referred to me as a “photographic ninja” - a title I wear with pride!

Here’s how my approach plays out during key moments of the day:

Morning Preparations

I absolutely love being part of the excitement during the morning preparations. This time gives me a chance to get to know your closest friends and family before the ceremony begins. While you’re getting ready, I’ll quietly capture all the little details - like your dress, flowers, and personal touches. At the same time, I’ll start to document authentic, candid moments as they happen. Before long, I’ve become part of the furniture, blending seamlessly into the background.

Ceremony

My goal during the ceremony is to be as discreet as possible, allowing you to focus fully on exchanging your vows. I know that nerves are likely to be high at this point, and the last thing you want is to feel distracted by the click of a camera. Whenever possible, I’ll shoot silently to ensure I capture the emotions of the moment without disturbing the atmosphere.

Group Photos

While I love to remain in the background, I know how to step up and take charge during group photos. As a self-confessed introvert, it might surprise you to learn that I’m comfortable giving clear direction to large groups. My goal is to make this process quick and efficient, so you can get back to celebrating with your guests.

Couple Portraits

I understand that being in front of the camera can feel a little awkward. That’s why I take a relaxed approach, offering gentle guidance to help you feel at ease. I encourage you to be yourselves while I work quietly to find the best angles and backdrops for those stunning couple shots.

How to Find the Right Approach for You

Not sure what kind of approach you’re looking for? Here are my top tips:

Meet Your Photographer

Schedule a face-to-face meeting (either in person or virtually). It’s important to feel comfortable with your photographer since you’ll be spending so much time with them on your big day.

Ask Questions

Don’t be shy about asking your photographer how they typically work. The right photographer will be open and transparent about their approach.

Trust Your Instincts

Beyond their portfolio, consider how the photographer makes you feel. Do they listen to your needs? Do they seem calm and confident? These personal interactions are just as important as their technical skills.

Let’s Chat About Your Day!

If you’re still wondering what type of photographic approach is right for you, feel free to get in touch. I’d be happy to answer any questions and help you feel confident in your choice.

Stay tuned for the final post in this series, where I’ll cover a topic that’s top of the list for many couples: cost—how to ensure you’re getting value for money when choosing your wedding photographer.